you know I should have noticed the first time around but I LOATHE the way some fans react to Willow and language
She wants to fix the problem the forced him to leave when he didn't want to. And the response is OMG she wants to make him a slave!
Forcing someone to do what you want by ANY MEANS is either slavery or making them a puppet.
It matters not at all that she believes she loves him. MAKING him do something not his choice is WRONG unless she is law enforcement and he is inder proper legal sanction.
Doing it by taking away his WILL is the same as roofieing.
I know Willow is pretty and soft looking but she actually is dangerous and pathological.
She believes she has the absolute right to FORCE her lover to stay. That is coercion.
Imprisonment even.
It is illegal by any means. It is immoral. Real world would have her arrested for forcing someone to stay.
Would you like an ex to make you stay with them for ANY reason?
It violates tenets of magic that say we are not supposed to use it for our own selfish desires.
Even if you are following fantasy rules, magic is not to be abused.
Whether the chain is magical mind control or iron, it is still a chain.
Just like those people who force kids to stay with them by threatening to kill the kid's parents. They dont need chains. They have emotional and mental control.
If someone wants to leave and you cannot talk them out of it, there is only one moral option: Let them leave.
If she used anything but magic to make Oz stay, she would have been liable for arrest.
If you want to do magic on someone that you think they will want, you ASK.